{"id":8143,"date":"2011-10-18T10:44:20","date_gmt":"2011-10-18T14:44:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rightwinggranny.com\/?p=8143"},"modified":"2011-10-18T10:44:20","modified_gmt":"2011-10-18T14:44:20","slug":"an-amazing-comment-from-parenting-com","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rightwinggranny.com\/?p=8143","title":{"rendered":"An Amazing Comment From Parenting.com"},"content":{"rendered":"
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What follows is part of an article at Parenting.com<\/a>:<\/p>\n

We know the unemployment rate (over 9 percent) and the number of us living in poverty (more than 46 million. That\u2019s roughly one in seven). But Occupy Wall Street is not helping those people. Occupy Wall Street is a temper tantrum in a private park. And it\u2019s parents, moms and dads, i.e. us, who are to blame.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At some point on the parenting evolutionary chart, we went from restrained to indulgent. We went from being parents to being friends. Peewee baseball games stopped keeping score. Everyone got a trophy. If there was a problem, there was always a Boogieman: allergies, ADD, auditory processing, a bad teacher. We stopped saying \u201cno,\u201d and started saying \u201cno because\u2026\u201d We negotiated. We gave them options (Cinnamon Life and Frosted Mini Wheats? Big Time Rush<\/em> or iCarly<\/em>?). We told them they could be American Idols and astronauts, all while knowing they were tone deaf and terrible at chemistry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Those kids went to college, and got useless degrees (full disclosure: film major with a psychology minor). They graduated, and then failed at being American Idols and astronauts. Without a decent set of coping skills, they\u2019ve turned rejection into anger. They\u2019ve lived a life where there were always options, where they never lost, where they thought the moon overhead followed them. They\u2019ve been kicked out of the nest, having never been told their wings don\u2019t run on batteries. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

And now somebody owes them $150,000 for their education. No one said your major in horticulture was a coupon good for one free career.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is the crop from the seeds planted in the mid-1960’s. We need to get back to disciplining our children in a way that gives them both structure and hope. We need to teach our children a work ethic that includes planning for the future and doing the work necessary to achieve that future. The author of this article hit the nail on the head.<\/p>\n

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