{"id":32810,"date":"2018-03-12T11:51:10","date_gmt":"2018-03-12T15:51:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rightwinggranny.com\/?p=32810"},"modified":"2018-03-12T11:51:41","modified_gmt":"2018-03-12T15:51:41","slug":"32810","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.rightwinggranny.com\/?p=32810","title":{"rendered":"The American Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some thoughts from a blog called <a href=\"https:\/\/theconservativemillennialblog.com\/articles\/mass-shooters-the-breakdown-of-the-family\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Conservative Millennial<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>In the book, <em>Home Economics: The Consequences of Changing Family Structure<\/em>, Nick Schulz presents data that shows the deconstruction of the <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Nuclear family\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Nuclear_family\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">nuclear family<\/a> since 1960. Not only are people getting married later and less than they used to, in 2009, 41% of all births were to unmarried mothers.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>This is significant, because, as explained in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4240051\/\">a study<\/a> by <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Jane Anderson\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jane_Anderson\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">Jane Anderson<\/a> published by the <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"National Institutes of Health\" href=\"http:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?ll=39.000443,-77.102394&amp;spn=1.0,1.0&amp;q=39.000443,-77.102394 (National%20Institutes%20of%20Health)&amp;t=h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"geolocation noopener\">National Institutes of Health<\/a>,\u00a0children and society are generally happier, healthier, and more successful when the nuclear family is intact. She points out that as societal norms and perceptions of marriage have changed \u2013 from something that\u2019s healthy and beneficial to something that\u2019s constricting and even harmful. Therefore, our culture has evolved to glorifying singleness \u2014 and even single parenthood \u2014 rather than embracing the nuclear family.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>This has led to a higher risk of emotional distress, of psychological immaturity and social and financial immobility for many children who were raised in <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Single parent\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Single_parent\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">single-parent homes<\/a>, which in turn negatively affects societies economically and socially.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>This is not to say that this is the sole cause for young people committing acts of violence. \u00a0This is to argue that the deterioration of the family has hurt society as a whole, and children, specifically.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>&#8230;Furthermore, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sscnet.ucla.edu\/comm\/malamuth\/pdf\/85jspr2.pdf\">a study<\/a> by the <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Social science\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Social_science\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">Social Science<\/a> Department at <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"University of California, Los Angeles\" href=\"http:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?ll=34.0722222222,-118.444097222&amp;spn=0.01,0.01&amp;q=34.0722222222,-118.444097222 (University%20of%20California%2C%20Los%20Angeles)&amp;t=h\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"geolocation noopener\">UCLA<\/a> cites a clear link between loneliness and isolation and delinquent behavior. Sociologist Adam Lankford actually <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S1359178911000036\">argues<\/a> that lonely, troubled childhoods are a direct cause<i>\u00a0<\/i>of\u00a0more mass shootings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Fatherlessness, in particular, seems to play a key role in violence among young men. In fact, the majority of school shooters come from <a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/blog\/school-shootings-fathers-divorce-family-structure\">fatherless homes.<\/a>\u00a0Research by <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"W. Bradford Wilcox\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/W._Bradford_Wilcox\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">W. Bradford Wilcox<\/a> suggests that boys who grow up in single-mother homes are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/sexes\/archive\/2013\/06\/the-distinct-positive-impact-of-a-good-dad\/276874\/\">twice as likely<\/a> to commit crimes than those who grow up with a present father. Both sons and daughters are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/sexes\/archive\/2013\/06\/the-distinct-positive-impact-of-a-good-dad\/276874\/\">more likely<\/a> to be depressed without a strong relationship with a father. Broken families, in general, create not only a higher threat of delinquency for children, but also an\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalreview.com\/2013\/12\/uncomfortable-truths-about-family-breakdown-michael-barone\/\">increased risk of poverty and social immobility<\/a>. The breakdown of the <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Family structure in the United States\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Family_structure_in_the_United_States\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">American family<\/a> hurts our adolescent who often grow to be hurt adults, which consequently leads to a cycle of pain and violence.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>All of this said, correlation does not necessarily equal causation. It is difficult to say, empirically, that the breakdown of family and community <i>causes<\/i> these horrible acts of violence, but it sure hasn\u2019t helped.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>So, if we want to get real about talking about solutions to violence and <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Crime in the United States\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Crime_in_the_United_States\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener wikipedia\">crime in America<\/a>, we need to talk about the truth behind these crimes and criminals. The glorification of individualism, of singleness, and of isolation has coincided with our culture\u2019s embrace of moral relativism and rejection of absolute truth is doing more to damage our country and promote discontentment which can lead to violence than it is helping.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><strong>Why not start there?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some thoughts from a blog called The Conservative Millennial: In the book, Home Economics: The Consequences of Changing Family Structure, Nick Schulz presents data that shows the deconstruction of the nuclear family since 1960. 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